Your Life Won’t Change Until You Do

Ready to Break Free from Patterns Keeping You Stuck?

Tired of Living the Same Story on Repeat? It’s Time to Rewrite It.

Stop surviving and start living. Break free from unhealthy patterns, reclaim your energy, and experience soulful transformation with Beccology—a coaching journey that blends spiritual sass with no-nonsense healing.

Reveal Your Truth. Reclaim Your Power. Rise Higher.

Ready to stop settling and start living the life you truly deserve? Let’s cut the sh!t and make it happen.

You’ve Tried It All… But You’re Still Stuck

Sound familiar?

  • You’re the one everyone counts on—but no one shows up when you need them.
  • You’ve read the books, done the therapy, and even tried ‘manifesting’—but nothing seems to change.
  • You’re exhausted from giving so much yet receiving so little.
  • You’re wondering: “Am I being punished for something?”

Here’s the truth:

It’s not about how hard you try—it’s about uncovering the patterns you can’t see and breaking free from the loops keeping you stuck.

Stop Fixing Others.
Start Healing Yourself.

You’ve been told that being ‘strong’ means sacrificing yourself. But real strength comes from setting boundaries, standing in your power, and saying ‘yes’ to YOU.

Too many programs tell you to ‘stay positive’ or ‘just let go.’ But if it were that simple, you wouldn’t still feel stuck. You don’t need more surface-level advice—you need deep transformation.

Imagine If You Could:

  • Break free from toxic patterns you didn’t even realize were holding you back.
  • Trust your intuition and make decisions with clarity and confidence.
  • Set boundaries without guilt—and watch your relationships improve.
  • Reclaim your joy, energy, and true sense of purpose.

What’s Keeping You Stuck?

Most people try to change what’s happening on the surface without addressing the root cause. Real transformation means uncovering the stories, beliefs, and cycles that have shaped your life—and rewriting them on your terms.

Let’s cut the BS, heal the hurt, and create the life you were meant for—with guidance that’s real, honest, and deeply transformative.

Hi, I’m Becc Nelson, LMFT

Spiritual Coach | Therapist | Author of “Cut the Sh!t”

I’ve Been There

I know the exhaustion of giving without receiving—because I’ve lived it. Growing up in an abusive alcoholic family environment taught me the importance of understanding energy and creating healthy boundaries. These lessons now shape my life’s work: helping others break free from cycles of dissatisfaction. I help soulful, driven people like you break free from exhausting patterns, heal their deepest wounds, and rise into their highest selves. 

As a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, best-selling author, and spiritual mentor, I’ve dedicated over 30 years to helping individuals uncover the deeper lessons behind their life experiences and create meaningful, lasting transformation.

By blending proven therapeutic techniques with intuitive spiritual guidance, I empower you to break free from patterns that no longer serve you, reclaim your energy, and step into a life aligned with your soul’s purpose. Through personalized coaching, I’ve guided hundreds of clients to rise into their highest selves and build lives filled with clarity, confidence, and fulfillment.

But here’s the real deal:

I don’t just listen and nod. I challenge you to dig deep, face your patterns head-on, and claim the life you were meant to live.

Let’s cut the BS, heal the hurt, and build something REAL.

Becc Nelson

Introducing… Beccology™

A Transformational Journey to Your Highest Self

Your life is not random. Every experience—good or bad—holds a deeper purpose, offering an opportunity for growth and transformation. The patterns you see, the challenges you face, and even the pain you carry are all part of the lessons your soul came here to learn.

But here’s the thing: Most people don’t remember what those lessons are. That’s where I come in.

Beccology™ is a coaching journey designed to help you uncover these lessons, break free from the cycles keeping you stuck, and transform your life into one that feels aligned, joyful, and purposeful. By understanding the “why” behind your experiences, you can finally stop repeating the same painful stories and start living the life you were meant to live.

This isn’t surface-level self-help. It’s a deep exploration into your patterns, choices, and soul’s purpose, guiding you to rewrite your narrative and rise into the highest version of yourself.

Beccology Reveal Process Ascend Maintenance

Reveal Your Patterns. Rewrite Your Narrative. Reclaim Your Life.

If you’ve been stuck in the same cycles—over-giving, feeling unappreciated, and wondering why nothing ever changes—there is a better way.

Will it require commitment? Absolutely.

Will it challenge you and bring up some difficult truths? Yes—but that’s how real growth happens. This isn’t about struggle or hustle—it’s about doing the meaningful work that leads to lasting change.This is your chance to finally break free, step into alignment, and rewrite your story with the tools, support, and accountability to make it happen.

This is your opportunity to finally break free, align with your soul’s purpose, and rewrite your story. With the right tools, guidance, and accountability, transformation isn’t just possible—it’s inevitable.

Beccology isn’t just another coaching program; it’s a deeply personal, transformative journey designed for soulful individuals who are ready to break unhealthy patterns, reclaim their energy, and create a life they’re excited to wake up to. This isn’t about quick fixes or surface-level solutions. It’s about uncovering your deepest truths, understanding the lessons your soul is here to learn, and building a foundation of clarity, joy, and purpose.

  • Uncover the patterns and beliefs that have shaped your life so far.
  • Clear out what’s no longer serving you, making room for transformation.
  • Build a foundation rooted in clarity, confidence, and alignment with your highest self.

With my signature Beccology Method, we’ll move through the key phases to uncover, heal, and transform—helping you create a life that’s not only fulfilling but fully authentic to who you are at your core.

Let’s dive in:

The Beccology Method:
Four Phases to Break Free, Transform, and Thrive

Phase 1: Reveal – Discovering the Lessons Behind Your Patterns

In the Reveal phase, we shine a light on the patterns, beliefs, and cycles that have quietly been shaping your life. These experiences—both good and bad—aren’t random. They are opportunities designed to help you uncover the lessons your soul came into this lifetime to learn.

This foundational phase is about more than just identifying what’s keeping you stuck—it’s about understanding the “why” behind your experiences, so you can stop repeating the same painful cycles and start creating real change.

Through guided tools and reflective exercises, we’ll uncover:

  • Recurring patterns in your relationships, mindset, and habits.
  • Survival behaviors, self-sabotaging tendencies, and coping mechanisms that may no longer serve you.
  • The emotional triggers that keep you reacting instead of responding.

Using resources from my book Cut the Shit and specially designed tools for this program, you’ll work through:

  • The Life Story Inventory: Reflect on pivotal moments that have shaped your beliefs and identify how they’ve influenced your current patterns.
  • Trigger Mapping Exercise: Pinpoint situations that provoke strong reactions and trace their roots to uncover deeper truths.
  • Journaling Prompts for Reflection

 

This phase is not about judgment—it’s about curiosity and compassion. By connecting the dots, you’ll gain the clarity to see the bigger picture of your life, understand the lessons behind your experiences, and move into the next phase with intention and confidence.

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Phase 2: Process – Rewriting Your Narrative

In Process, we’ll dive into the internal resistance and outdated stories that have been holding you back. This is where we address the mental, emotional, and spiritual blocks keeping you stuck in cycles of frustration, self-doubt, or over-giving.

Together, we’ll identify common barriers such as fear, perfectionism, or the need to please others, and we’ll create practical strategies to break free from these patterns. You’ll learn to transform the limiting beliefs and reactive responses that no longer serve you into empowering truths that align with your soul’s purpose.

Through guided tools and reflective exercises, we’ll work on:

  • Belief Reframing: Pinpoint limiting beliefs, trace their origins, and rewrite them into empowering, actionable truths.
  • Emotional Awareness Practice: Learn to recognize and respond to your emotions rather than react, turning them into powerful guides.
  • Journaling Prompts for Transformation:
  • Intuition Strengthening Exercises: Tune into your inner wisdom and practice making aligned decisions with confidence.
  • Self-Talk Reset Practice: Rewrite the subconscious messages you tell yourself daily into positive, affirming thoughts that propel you forward.

 

This phase isn’t about perfection—it’s about progress. As you clear these mental and emotional obstacles, you’ll feel lighter, more aligned, and ready to embrace the lessons and opportunities life offers. With a new narrative rooted in clarity and truth, you’ll step into the next phase equipped with the tools to create meaningful, lasting change.

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Phase 3: Ascend – Rising Into Your Highest Self

With clarity about your patterns and a new narrative in place, Ascend focuses on integrating your transformation into daily life. This phase is about creating intentional habits, spiritual practices, and meaningful connections that align with your purpose and help you maintain your growth.

Together, we’ll craft a personalized plan to anchor your progress, combining practical steps with intuitive alignment. You’ll set short-term goals that reflect your highest self and break them into manageable, actionable steps, so every day feels purposeful and aligned.

Using tools and practices designed for real-world application, we’ll work on:

  • Healthy Patterns Integration: Identify and reinforce new habits that support your goals and purpose.
  • Reciprocal Relationship Mapping: Evaluate your relationships and strengthen those that energize and support your growth.
  • Daily Ritual Design: Create empowering morning or evening rituals to ground yourself in your new narrative and purpose.
  • Spiritual Growth Prompts

 

In this phase, we replace creative avoidance and outdated habits with intentional, impactful actions. Each step is a choice to align with your highest potential, bringing you closer to the life of confidence, joy, and connection you’ve been working toward.

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Phase 4: Maintenance – Sustaining Your Transformation

In the optional Maintenance phase, we focus on building the momentum and habits that ensure your growth becomes a lasting part of your life. Transformation isn’t just about achieving change—it’s about maintaining it, deepening it, and continuing to rise into the highest version of yourself.

Together, we’ll reinforce the tools and practices you’ve developed, ensuring you feel supported and aligned as you navigate life’s challenges and opportunities.

Using strategies designed to keep you on track, we’ll work through:

  • Monthly Progress Reflections: Evaluate your growth, celebrate wins, and fine-tune areas where old patterns may start to creep back in.
  • Relapse Prevention Plan: Identify early warning signs of self-sabotage or misalignment and develop actionable steps to course-correct.
  • Advanced Journaling Prompts for Integration
  • Spiritual Growth Tools: Strengthen your daily rituals with guided meditations, affirmations, and reflective practices to stay connected to your purpose.
  • Personalized Milestone Mapping: Create clear, achievable steps to build confidence and ensure continued forward movement.

 

Maintenance isn’t about reaching an endpoint—it’s about committing to your growth for life. With the tools, strategies, and rituals you’ve developed, you’ll continue to embody the progress you’ve made and strengthen your alignment with your highest self every day.

This phase is about evolving with intention and staying connected to the version of you that’s ready to rise, even when life brings new challenges. To ensure you feel supported on this path, I’m offering opportunities to collaborate and connect with others who are also navigating this phase. Together, you can share insights, celebrate wins, and provide the kind of understanding and encouragement that only comes from walking the same journey.

With systems for self-reflection, tools for growth, and a supportive community by your side, you’ll feel empowered to embrace this lifelong work—living each day with clarity, purpose, and the joy of knowing you are continually rising into the best version of yourself.

Maintenance

What's Included?

In Beccology, you’ll receive personalized support, actionable tools, and guidance at every step of your transformational journey.

Which Beccology™ Option Will Best Support You?

Feature
90-Day Program
180-Day Program
(9) 45-Minute Sessions
Unlimited Email Support (M-F)
30-Minute Angel Reading (Pre-Work)
Access to 3 modules of Beccology Transformation Framework
Core Values & Alignment Compass Worksheets
Beautiful Boundaries Affirmation Cards (PDF)
6 Additional 45-Minute Sessions
15-Minute Pendulum Introduction + Guide
30-Minute Angel Reading (Post-Work)
Relapse Prevention Plan 7 Tools
Self-Love Affirmation Cards (PDF)
Access to 4th Module of Beccology Transformational Framework
Community Support Opportunities

90-Day Beccology Package

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9 50-minute sessions

Dedicated, focused sessions where we uncover your patterns, rewrite your narrative, and align your life with your purpose. Each session is tailored to where you are and what you need to move forward.

  • 6 Weekly 50-Minute Sessions for the first 6 weeks
  • 3 Weekly 50-Minute Sessions for weeks 7-12

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Unlimited Email Support*

Get real-time guidance, feedback, and encouragement when challenges arise or when you need a nudge to stay aligned. (answers within the same day)

*Monday-Friday

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Curated Tools and Reflection Exercises

Access proven tools like the “Finding My True North Journal-a guide for self-reflection and discovery, reflection exercises, and actionable worksheets from Cut the Shit to ensure clarity, consistency, and momentum.

Bonus Access with 3-Month Package

With the 3-month option, you’ll receive:

30-Minute Angel Reading (prework) Receive a personalized 30-minute Angel Reading to uncover the messages your guardian angels, archangels, and ascended masters have for you.  

The Core of You & Alignment Compass Worksheets

Gain access to two powerful tools designed to help you connect with your core values and navigate your life with purpose and clarity:

  • The Core of You: Discovering Your Values Worksheet
  • The Alignment Compass: Navigating Your Values Worksheet

Beautiful Boundaries Affirmation Cards

Receive a set of 25 beautifully designed affirmation cards in a printable PDF format to support your journey toward healthy boundaries. 

6-Month Beccology Package

Includes Everything in the 90-Day Program PLUS:

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Monthly Maintenance Sessions

After the initial 90 days, Continued 50-minute sessions twice a month to ensure you sustain your transformation, refine your tools, and stay aligned with your goals as you navigate life’s opportunities and challenges.

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Relapse Prevention Plan & Tools

Develop a proactive plan to identify early signs of self-sabotage and solidify your ability to maintain the progress you’ve made.

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Community Support Opportunities

Connect with others in this phase of their journey, share insights, celebrate wins, and gain support from those who truly understand your path.

Exclusive Bonuses with the 6-Month Beccology Package

I want you to have every tool and advantage as you move forward in your transformation. With the 6-month option, you’ll gain access to these exclusive bonuses designed to deepen your growth, enhance clarity, and maintain momentum:

30-Minute Angel Reading (prework)

Receive a personalized 30-minute Angel Reading to uncover the messages your guardian angels, archangels, and ascended masters have for you.  

Beautiful Boundaries & Self-Love Affirmation Cards

Receive a set of 50 beautifully designed affirmation cards in a printable PDF format to support your journey toward self-love, self-worth, and healthy boundaries.  Print them, display them, or carry them with you as daily reminders to stay aligned with your growth and transformation.

The Core of You & Alignment Compass Worksheets

Gain access to two powerful tools designed to help you connect with your core values and navigate your life with purpose and clarity:

  • The Core of You: Discovering Your Values Worksheet
  • The Alignment Compass: Navigating Your Values Worksheet
  • 15-Minute Pendulum Introduction + Pendulum Question Guide

30 Minute Angel Reading (post work)

As you complete your Beccology journey, receive a 30-minute Angel Reading to gain deeper insights and guidance from your guardian angels, archangels, and ascended masters.

Your Journey. Your Pace. Your Transformation.

Both programs are designed to provide the clarity, tools, and accountability you need to break free, rise into your highest self, and maintain the life you’ve worked so hard to create. Whether you choose 90 days for focused transformation or six months for deeper integration and sustained growth, you’ll be fully supported every step of the way.

If All This Did Was…

If all this program did was finally free you from the patterns keeping you stuck—so you could live with clarity, confidence, and purpose—wouldn’t it be worth it?

If all this did was help you understand the lessons behind your challenges and give you the tools to transform them into opportunities for growth—would you say “yes” to yourself?

Beccology isn’t just about feeling better in the moment. It’s about creating a life you’re excited to wake up to—one that aligns with your soul’s purpose and allows you to rise into the best version of yourself.

Click below to begin your transformation.

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What People Are Saying

Who is This For?

Beccology is for you if:

Who is This NOT For?

Beccology is NOT for you if:

You Don't Need To:

  • Sacrifice your personal life, joy, or peace to create lasting change.
  • Keep running on the hamster wheel of burnout, overwhelm, and exhaustion.
  • Hustle endlessly or rely on “surface-level fixes” that leave you feeling unfulfilled.
  • Feel guilty, undeserving, or needy for prioritizing your own growth and happiness.
  • Keep waiting for others to change so you can finally feel happy—because real transformation begins with YOU.
  • Give away your power to situations, people, or patterns that keep you stuck.
  • Keep reliving the same stories from your past that reinforce your pain, self-doubt, or limiting beliefs.

THE TIME IS NOW—ARE YOU READY TO “Cut The Shit”?

Imagine:

  • Waking up each day feeling energized and at peace, no longer drained by one-sided relationships or endless giving.
  • Setting boundaries that honor your energy and create healthier, more balanced connections.
  • Reclaiming your time, focus, and purpose—without sacrificing your well-being or burning out.
  • Finally seeing your efforts lead to meaningful change and stepping into a life that reflects your worth and priorities.

If you’re ready to stop repeating the same patterns and start living a life that gives back the energy you put in, click below to begin your journey.

Ready to Reclaim Your Power and Rewrite Your Story?

It’s Time to Choose Your Path to Transformation

Whether you’re ready for focused transformation in 90 days or seeking deeper integration with the 180-day option, Beccology offers the tools, guidance, and support to help you reclaim your energy, break free from old patterns, and align with your highest self.

Both options are designed to meet you where you are and guide you toward a life of clarity, confidence, and purpose.

90 Day Beccology

The 90-Day Program

Focused transformation through nine personalized sessions, with tailored tools to help you rewrite your story and rise.

6 Month Beccology

The 180-Day Program

All the benefits of the 90-day journey, plus 6 additional sessions, exclusive bonuses, and advanced tools for long-term integration and growth.

To your growth and transformation,

Becc Nelson

LMFT
Founder, Beccology

Becc Nelson

Frequently Asked Questions

What makes this program different from others I’ve tried?

Beccology isn’t a one-size-fits-all program or a quick-fix solution. This is a deeply personalized journey that combines soul-level exploration with practical tools and strategies tailored to who you are and what you need.

Unlike programs that focus only on mindset or external actions, Beccology blends:

  • Therapeutic Insights: We uncover the patterns and beliefs shaping your life so you can stop repeating them.
  • Spiritual Guidance: Together, we’ll explore the deeper soul lessons behind your challenges, connecting you to your purpose and highest self.
  • Actionable Strategies: Every session provides clear, sustainable steps to integrate your growth into daily life.

This isn’t just about feeling better temporarily—it’s about creating lasting transformation that feels aligned, authentic, and empowering.

Beccology isn’t about quick fixes—it’s about creating sustainable, lasting transformation. While every journey is unique, many clients begin to notice meaningful shifts as they uncover patterns and apply personalized strategies early in the program. By building on what has worked for you in the past and addressing what hasn’t, Beccology ensures your growth endures.

Often traditional therapy often focuses on the “content” of what’s happening in your life—like the events of your week—without addressing the deeper patterns driving your behavior. Beccology goes further by uncovering the “process” behind your experiences, helping you break free from cycles that keep you stuck and create clear, sustainable change.

What sets Beccology apart is its soul-level connection. Life isn’t random—every experience holds a lesson your soul came here to learn. Through heart-centered, intuitive guidance, I help you uncover these lessons, transforming challenges into opportunities for growth. This approach blends therapeutic insights with spiritual exploration, offering personalized strategies that empower you to align with your highest self and create a life that truly blesses you.

Transformation doesn’t happen alone, and in Beccology, you’ll have a trusted accountability partner by your side every step of the way. Through the four “C’s,” I ensure your success:

  • Clarity: Together, we’ll define your goals, create actionable steps, and regularly evaluate your progress to eliminate distractions.
  • Competence: Having someone walk this journey with you keeps you focused, efficient, and moving forward.
  • Commitment: Accountability strengthens your dedication, ensuring you follow through on your goals.
  • Celebration: We’ll celebrate your wins and learn from setbacks, keeping you motivated and energized.

You’ll also have access to a private email address for active clients, so you can ask questions, get feedback, and receive the support you need between sessions. With Beccology, you’ll never have to wonder if you’re doing this work alone—because you aren’t.