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Hello beautiful soul!

If you have been guided to my page trust you have found me to be of assistance to you. Spirit has led you to my page for your highest and best good!

Why?

You see, I am like you! Having grown up in a home with an abusive parent I had to learn from a very young age to read the energy in the room and change my behavior accordingly. This was a never ending task, as the energy and mood would change frequently. The entire family would need to “agree” to engage in this task to deal with the ever changing climate or risk dangerous conditions.

As I grew and learned I learned this ever changing and vigilant state of mind was toxic. It leads to a host of complications in spirit, mind and body and can result in dysfunctional relationships with people, places, situations and things. I realized I was a complete “people pleaser”, making decisions based not on what I wanted but driven by what I thought others wanted from me. Furthermore when you live with this belief others around you also act as if you need to please them and not doing so is “selfish”. Some people actually would call me selfish and others would simply act as if I should feel guilty for not doing what they wanted.

For a long time I resented being in this place. “Why me?” I asked myself. “Am I simply not meant to be happy? Is my purpose in life just to serve others without expecting happiness for myself?”

In working with my own coaches and spiritual mentors I have learned that not only do I deserve happiness and the life of my dreams, but that I CAN serve others with carefully held boundaries. I now know that my “Truth” is that I needed to go through these experiences to learn to come through them successfully, so that I may share this with YOU! I have become a beacon of light, a “lighthouse” for others, like me, who struggle with feeling as if they give too much of themselves without receiving. From the combination of wisdom and knowledge of life experiences and education and 30 years in the business of healing I am THE expert in transformation! The work is not easy, and you will have to take responsibility for your own choice.

Trust me….you are worth the effort!

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13 Fun Facts

I have always had the attitude that I wanted to experience everything life has to offer! Here are some fun facts about me illustrating ways I have lived this:

Throughout my undergraduate years I worked at a dive shop in Aruba.
I am certified through PADI as an advanced SCUBA diver.
When working in Aruba I had an experience in a submerged boat 60 feet underwater where I was able to take off my breather and talk in a pocket of air.
I always dreamed of riding and owning horses. I began to ride in my 40’s and in the past 11 years have owned 5 horses.
I always dreamed of having my own “Black” which was an Arabian black horse from the movie “The Black Stallion”. I did have my “Black” who was named “Trace of Fame” (Trace). He was exactly what I always wanted. Unfortunately we lost Trace in August of 2020.
I have been a certified lifeguard and I taught swimming lessons as my first job at a YMCA.
Besides being a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I have also been a licensed chemical dependency professional. My first job fresh out of undergrad was at a methadone clinic.
I have been married to my soulmate and best friend Ed since 1993.
I have owned and directed my own healing center, Hope Counseling and Mediation Center, INC since Jan of 2011.
I wrote my first book, “Cut the Shit: Reframe Your Thinking, Regain Your LIfe” which is due to be published on September 26, 2022.
I am a psychic medium and angel communicator
If it were up to me I would spend each day reading. I particularly love mysteries and legal thrillers!
I work out at least 5 days a week.