Sacred Deathcare & Healing Unfinished Goodbyes: A Conversation with Bessie Estonactoc

In this powerful and heart-centered episode of Intuition Unleashed: A Revolution in Personal Liberation, host Becc Nelson sits down with Bessie Estonactoc — a former therapist turned Certified Spiritual Mentor and Sacred Deathcare Guide — to explore how we can find peace, completion, and even transformation in life’s most sacred transition: death.

Through this deeply intimate conversation, Becc and Bessie open a compassionate dialogue about grief, energy, and healing. They remind us that death is not an ending—it’s an evolution of connection, love, and awareness.

🌹 What Sacred Deathcare Really Means

Sacred deathcare invites us to view death not as a medical event, but as a spiritual passage—one that deserves reverence, mindfulness, and presence. Bessie shares her philosophy that caring for the dying and the departed is just as sacred as supporting the birth of new life.

She explains how rituals, energetic awareness, and intentional presence can bring peace to both the one transitioning and those left behind. When we approach death consciously, we transform fear into love, and closure becomes an act of liberation.

“Death isn’t the opposite of life,” Bessie says. “It’s part of the same sacred cycle.”

💫 Healing the Unfinished Goodbyes

One of the most moving parts of the episode comes when Bessie shares her experience with the Proxy Body Ritual — a powerful spiritual practice that helped her release unspoken words and unprocessed emotions following her mother’s passing.

This ritual became the bridge between the physical and spiritual realms, allowing her to say what was left unsaid, forgive what remained heavy, and reclaim peace in her body and heart.

Becc and Bessie explore how grief, when left unexpressed, often lodges in the body — creating tension, fatigue, and emotional disconnection. Through sacred deathcare, those energies can finally be released, transforming sorrow into spaciousness and love.

🌿 The Power of Ritual and Intuitive Connection

Throughout the episode, listeners are guided to understand how end-of-life rituals can bring both comfort and clarity. From creating sacred spaces to speaking final blessings, these rituals provide a structure for healing that transcends religion or belief system.

As Becc observes, “We spend our lives avoiding death, but when we meet it consciously, it softens everything else.”

Together, she and Bessie illuminate how intuitive communication—listening to the soul of the departed, trusting subtle messages, and honoring ongoing connection—can help us move forward with peace instead of pain.

💜 Why Talking About Death Brings Life

Avoiding conversations about death can create emotional isolation, shame, and unfinished business that reverberates for generations. In contrast, talking about death openly helps us live more fully and love more deeply.

Bessie encourages listeners to normalize these conversations in families, partnerships, and communities. She shares ways to approach the topic gently yet honestly, transforming fear into curiosity and resistance into reverence.

“Every goodbye,” she says, “can become a sacred act of love if we allow ourselves to be fully present.”

🔥 Embracing Death as a Portal for Transformation

This episode reminds us that even in the face of loss, healing is possible. Through sacred deathcare, energy work, and intuitive awareness, we can learn to hold death not as a tragedy but as a teacher — one that reveals the depth of our humanity and the eternal nature of love.

Becc weaves her own reflections on grief healing, spiritual surrender, and soul evolution throughout the conversation, grounding it in the core message of Intuition Unleashed: transformation begins when we stop running from what scares us most.

Whether you’ve recently lost someone, work in the healing arts, or simply wish to prepare for your own transitions consciously, this episode offers profound comfort, perspective, and spiritual truth.

🎧 Listen now to learn how healing can happen — even after goodbye.

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